TransformYourLife

 We have oftentimes seen that there are people who are afraid of taking any kind of risk in their lives.They stay at low paying jobs which don't fulfill them, stay in abusive relationships and never start their own initiatives/businesses even if they have the requisite skills. They hold onto security and trade it for new experiences.They live in fear of losing what they have if they chase what they can have.They also have abundance blocks at times and feel unworthy of bigger and better things. They live mired in fear and see life pass by them. The fear stems from previous losses and hardships in life. The way out is to acknowledge the past but not be a slave to it.

I hate my life and job right now My boss is a chimp Everyone has it better than me I have the meanest parents ever;if it was not for them I would’ve definitely succeeded in my career I don’t like my cartier earrings anymore How dare the train arrive 30 nano-seconds late!!!Do they not know how late I’ll be to the meeting with investors from Saudi? The man on the table next to mine got his quinoa salad in 5 mins while I’ve been tapping my Rado watch here for 40 minutes now.But you waiters at this restaurant are such cunts that….Phew!I’ll frickin get myself an unhealthy hotdog now, thanks very much for killing my enthusiasm to eat healthy!!! The above are some of the examples of complaining in day-to-day life. It has zero efficacy and only leads to an enhancement of negativity The situation does not change no matter how much one complains or whines Nobody cares if you complain It depletes positive energy It enhances toxicity It makes the ...

There are loads of people who are underpaid on their current job.The reasons for this can be numerous-a small organization, financial downsturn,the company having a bad year, downsizing of teams and so on.People think changing jobs is the way to beat this-that I’ll get a raise on my next job, but typically the raise is not enough to get you upto market rate.Despite multiple job changes, you are still underpaid .You feel worthless and your self -esteem takes a hit.You don’t even want to try for a new job anymore. How does one fix this: 1. Know your worth -Know what a person of your experience,qualification is being paid in your geography.Use market salary surveys and websites like glassdoor and payscale.Establish a range of salaries for your said role.Also, don’t let them use your current salary as a basis to pay you less than market rate. 2. Never state a number -On a job interview, when asked how much you would want to be paid, always state a range based upon your researc...

We are born at our parents will.We have no control of the time at which we are born.The initial few years of our life till we leave home are primarily influenced by our family.Our parents thoughts , ideas and limitations become ours.If our parents believe in destiny /doomed human existence and are negative, we also start having such mindsets.Most people believe by the time they are 18 that the course of life is already charted out for them and sleep walk through life thereafter.They do not put in efforts into any new endeavors or new experiences . We must realize that life is something that was given to us as gift and that the course it takes is upto us.The direction we give it will determine how it rolls.The direction can enable us to achieve greater things and not just let life take its course. We can take control in the following ways: 1. Learn to take ownership of own actions :It is very easy to blame the events in our life on destiny and not take ownership of these t...

As an entry level employee, there is student debt, rent, transport and other expenses to take care of.The paycheque gets exhausted settling bills and barely anything is left thereafter.But as we know there must be monthly savings and investments to have wealth eventually . Here are a few ways to cut down on expenses/increase income and save a part of the paycheque: Start cooking your own meals instead of eating every single meal outside Use the public/office/building gym instead of a gym membership Take local transport instead of a cab each time Move to a not so grand neighborhood  if it is not too far from work Take up a part time/freelance job on weekends Have a side hustle-your own business that helps you earn extra money Teach skills you know for extra money to students Curb the urge to buy every new shiny phone or gadget Invest money in safe return giving instruments Find free and low cost events to attend in city Limit air travel ...