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The following are top 10 reasons why men stop texting He was in it only for the sex /thrill of chase He was dating someone else alongside and has become exclusive with her He cannot handle commitment in a relationship contrary to his initial pitch He has mixed emotions about the relationship He does not have the balls to break up and hence ghosts He becomes acutely aware of his demons and wants to run He is stressed-loss of job/death in family etc are common stressors He is feeling vulnerable He is ashamed of something he did and is hiding He feels you deserve better 

A person’s character, relationship style and behavior in interpersonal associations is a cumulative of behaviors learnt while adapting to family of origin. Hence, when someone says “This is how I am”, they are usually unaware of the fact that “how they are” is nothing but a bunch of their defenses and behaviors learnt during childhood which were useful in navigating/surviving/adapting to the family of origin. If you observe the above line carefully, you will realize that I’ve used the word “survive” and “adapt” thus implying that the behaviors were situational and are extending into present time.The behaviors were needed and required to protect our core self/survive /lessen the inner pain in childhood.They merely solidified into adult relationship style and character as time passed.Many of these behaviors serve no purpose in adulthood and create pain and misery.They can be shed and character can be reshaped. Let us understand how with the help of a short story. This is...