TransformYourLife

It manifests itself in following ways : Trolling social media Changing display picture daily Immediately viewing everybody’s status update Incessant shopping More than two salon visits per week Over - eating Gossiping Creating drama Blaming boyfriend/partner/husband for not giving attention even though they are attentive Unending restlessness Feeling empty and numb on the inside The above stem from not being self- aware, not   having a sense of purpose or direction in life and looking for something /someone to complete the woman.

Resisting Claiming to be a fighter Claiming not to succumb Butting heads with unchanging situations The above are some of the things one does when in a difficult situation in life.Encouraging literature urges one to fight hard, stay strong and never give up.Despite fighting the situation, it neither improves nor changes. One feels fatigued and mentally exhausted and yet the situation remains as is.One overthinks and tries to mentally find solutions to the problem but is unable to do so.The compounded misery begins to take its toll and results in mild depression, grouchiness and cranky behavior around people. The only way to deal with a difficult situation is to be in acceptance of it.Once the resistance vanishes, energy is focused automatically on improving it .