How fear from the past keeps us small

We have oftentimes seen that there are people who are afraid of taking any kind of risk in their lives.They stay at low paying jobs which don't fulfill them, stay in abusive relationships and never start their own initiatives/businesses even if they have the requisite skills.

They hold onto security and trade it for new experiences.They live in fear of losing what they have if they chase what they can have.They also have abundance blocks at times and feel unworthy of bigger and better things.

They live mired in fear and see life pass by them.

The fear stems from previous losses and hardships in life.

The way out is to acknowledge the past but not be a slave to it.

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