- I should not desire money
- Money causes greed and will make me non-empathetic
- I should not take business risks
- I should stay out of limelight and not draw attention to myself
- I should not speak my mind
- I should never offend anyone even if it means my boundaries being overstepped
- I should always adjust to circumstances
- My destiny is such that I will never receive abundance
- Less wealth and more peace is better than chasing what I desire
- My destiny is to be a corporate slave
Fear of engulfment is the fear of getting controlled by partner or losing yourself in the relationship.It is a very strong fear of being swallowed by the partner and makes one run for the hills.The individual with this fear hence completely avoids relationships sometimes or is unable to sustain them and runs each time things begin to heat up. This fear is actually a fear of rejection .Due to this fear the individual gives too much in the early phases of the relationship so that they can please their partner and to ensure their partner likes them.They take responsibility for their partners feelings and want to make sure the partner stays happy and does not reject them.But this too much giving from the fear of rejection makes them feel trapped. The solution to this is to develop stronger boundaries, not take rejection personally and religiously practice inner bonding to develop a very strong sense of adult self. Let us see examples in of a person named Raymond who is 44
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