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The following are top 10 reasons why men stop texting He was in it only for the sex /thrill of chase He was dating someone else alongside and has become exclusive with her He cannot handle commitment in a relationship contrary to his initial pitch He has mixed emotions about the relationship He does not have the balls to break up and hence ghosts He becomes acutely aware of his demons and wants to run He is stressed-loss of job/death in family etc are common stressors He is feeling vulnerable He is ashamed of something he did and is hiding He feels you deserve better 

We often see women who only attract broke, abusive,emotionally battered/unavailable men .These men only offer crumbs in the relationship , are having underlying mental conditions/addictions and yet these women hold onto them and nurture them. The following are the reasons for the same: The woman was raised in an abusive environment and the paradigm of a relationship thus set for her was that riled in abuse The woman's father was emotionally unavailable and distant and she had to vie for his attention .She replicates the same in adult relationships. She has low self esteem and fear of being alone Subsconscious programming attracts her to those who feel familiar vibrationally, namely, the abusive and the unavailable She has a belief that if she rescues these men they will somehow grow to love her

They are full of self loathing They are pensive They project their negativity onto everyone They are energy vampires They have low self-esteem and bring yours down as well They are fear-based and have reservations with new things Their tendency to envision failure becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy They tend to thwart efforts of positive people They live limited lives They try to suck others into their own dramas

Living with parents after age 25 Recklessness Works intermittently or not at all Plays video games all day Has no goals or plans for life Is indisciplined Has no savings Eats intermittently and does not exercise Has no long term friends Cannot commit to anything/anyone long term

“When you wrestle with a pig in the mud, you get dirt over yourself!” This is a well known adage and holds true when dealing with an egoistical boss .The boss in question has a habit of being always right, ruling with an iron whip nothing short of being a dictator.He is not open to suggestions and gives incredibly harsh feedback. Further, he openly puts down subordinates in front of the management and pouts when he does not get his own way.He is nothing short of a grown man-child . Working with him leads to daily anxiety,panic attacks and one begins to question own self worth as well. The way out is to realize that not giving into the games he plays and standing firm in who you are can unsettle him .So allow him to bark all he wants-you focus on doing a good job .

Avoiding all social contact Not answering texts and phone calls Having an all pervading feeling of hopelessness Repeatedly questioning own self worth Loss of appetite and enthusiasm Listlessness Sleeping all day Suicidal thoughts over feeling worthless Headaches and panic attacks

Read books Cook various dishes Stay up all night chatting with family Cuddle with pets for hours Glance through old albums and collages Video conference with friends in different countries Relax and practice mindfulness meditation Indulge in prolonged self care including a bubble bath with scented candles Put on old records over a record player and dance Sleep all morning