Flow versus resist

Life is a flowing river.We believe we are on a boat and are steering it in the river, but the truth is that the river is taking the boat where it wills.Our ego does not permit us to acknowledge this and we resist the flow.He harder the resistance, the greater is the blow to the boat.If we have prolonged resistance, the boat gets damaged and water begins to enter into it.

It is hence a good idea to not resist the flow of life.One must accept the situation one is in and then take action to change it if one does not like it.By doing so, one has surrendered to "what is" and is not fighting from a place of resistance anymore.This eases the flow and makes it easier to navigate the path.

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