A man , by
definition, is supposed to be masculine, strong, unemotional , a provider for
his mate and family and a also protector.He is never supposed to lose his cool
and is always supposed to uphold his integrity.He is supposed to be a leader ,
a mentor and a guide .He must never get too emotional or display is feelings.
He also displays physical strength and has strong boundaries.Unless evolved, he
can be vindictive and vengeful as well.This is what the patriarch society has
conditioned a good man to be.Such a man is a masculine essence man.
There is a
breed of men who were raised by controlling narcissistic women and weak passive
codependent fathers.They had their wings clipped off at an early age and were
not allowed to grow, develop and individuate .They are sensitive , caring , empathetic
and understand a woman’s feelings deeply.They are, however, oftentimes,
emotionally disconnected from self and find it hard to be vulnerable.
Such a man
needs to be led from the masculine.A woman’s masculine energy invigorates him
and gets him to open up.Such a man needs to learn how to assert healthy
boundaries, put himself first and not worry too much about taking on additional
responsibilities about the feelings of others.
If he integrates
these lessons with his empathetic feminine essence he can be an embodiment of
sensitivity and strength and lead a happy life.
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