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Benefits of Spontaneity


Imagine a person working in a high pressure consulting job with extremely long hours.On one day of the week he is in Jakarta Indonesia at a clients and on the other he is advising another in San Diego.He literally lives out of a suitcase.He is stationed at the London office but base location is meaningless since he travels all the time.He has not bothered to rent or buy a house-he chooses Airbnb instead when he is in London few days per month.He has bloodshot eyes and a searing headache all the time.He does not remember the last time he could have a leisurely meal which lasted an hour and was at a table.

He has no personal time for hobbies,working out or even rest.His last relationship went down the drain when his half-thai girlfriend broke up with him as she accused him of utter neglect.He has not visited his parents in 1.5 years.

He is a living corpse in a suit

He craves to go scuba diving in the Maldives and shout his lungs out as he sky dives.

He craves life .

The only way he can do it is by breaking the rut and being spontaneous.

It is wonderful to be spontaneous because it helps:
  • Break the routine
  • Have new experiences
  • Enhance our creativity
  • Feel refreshed /rejuvenated

Hence I encourage you to embrace spontaneity.

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